Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Beach Essentials

The countdown for the beach has begun...less than a week away from feeling the sand on my toes, hearing the ocean, and feeling the sea breeze on my face.  To say I am excited would be an understatement.  I look forward to this trip with the Vicars all year.  This year I am especially excited because the boys will be able to experience the beach.  Last year they were so small that they really didn't know what was going on.  Since I have beach on the brain, I thought I would share some of my beach essentials.  

I usually buy a new swimsuit every year.  This year is no different.  I rarely stray from Victoria's Secret when it comes to swimsuits.  I just love the variety they offer, the easy mix and match separates, and the sizing.  They also have great sales.  Here is what I found for this year's purchase.
My favorite style of swimsuit is a halter.  I really liked this suit in blue too.  Since I'm notorious for buying a lot of blue, I decided to branch out and do the coral instead.
{Gorgeous Swim Collection} 

This is my suit from last year.  This is one of my favorite colors.  I actually didn't get to wear it much last year because I was still trying to loose baby weight, so I am very excited to be able to put it on this year!

I purchased this suit 2 years ago, and it is still one of my faves.

A great cover-up is another essential of mine.
I love a cute dress that can easily be thrown on.
 
I am using this awesome tankdress for one of my cover-ups.
This picture doesn't do it justice, but it's a hot neon pink which I love.
Plus, it's so comfy!  

Next up, I have to protect my face and skin from the sun.  I have to be honest, I haven't always done the best job of protecting my skin.  I do love a good tan, but this year is different.  Maybe it has to do with turning 31, but I am starting to see the negative effects of the sun on my skin.  I am going to be smarter about applying sunscreen (not just tanning oil-what?!) whenever I go outside and especially when I am laying out. 

 
I found a cute hat to keep the sun off of my face.  
 
I am never without my shades, even on a cloudy day.
These were actually my birthday gift last year from my hubby.  
I am obsessed with Ray Bans.  These are so classic!
{Wayfarer}

The days of tanning oil are in the past.
I'm going to borrow the boys' SPF 50 for my face and
keep 30 on everywhere else while on the beach.

 {SPF 30}   {SPF 50}

 What would the beach be without flip flops?
 I have had these for years, and they have been the best flip flops I've ever had.
I have them in hot pink too. :)
I also have my eye on these for a little more dressy look.

 
I have to have a big beach bag because I have a lot to carry with 2 kiddos in tow.

This is the perfect bag for holding all our beach essentials.  It's big enough to hold everything we need.  The best part about this bag is that it is water resistant and easily wipes clean.  I have an older print, but I love this chevron.
{Scout Bag Deano}

I just updated our beach towels.  The ones we have are several years old and faded.   
I love a striped towel, so beachy! 
The best part about these is that they were $10.00 and an additional 15% off  with coupon, yay!

A beach trip wouldn't be complete without some good reading material. 
Here's what is on my beach reading list:

 


 
 
 
{Spring Fever}

Ok ok, I have one last thing that is essential to a day on the beach...

Rum


 Pineapple Juice

Lime

Oh yes!  You have to a cocktail beachside.
Adam and I love a good beach drink. This is so simple.  All you need is rum with a little splash of pineapple and a squeeze of lime.  We started a new tradition last year.  As soon as the boys go down for their afternoon naps, we grab our cooler and run down to the beach for an early happy hour.  I can't wait for this year!
These are super easy to make and sooo easy to drink. :)

Now, who's ready to hit the beach?!






Friday, May 24, 2013

31...Now What?

Today I turn 31.  For some reason this birthday is hitting me a lot harder than 30 did.  It may be because I was so busy with 2 five month old babies that I didn't have time to process it, ha.  It also may be because I all of a sudden feel all of 31.  I have started noticing lines and wrinkles that didn't used to be there.  My energy levels aren't what they used to be.  The years are going so freakin fast.  I mean, how did I get to be 31?  Insane!  My 20s seem like a blur.  I have decided to make this next year really count.  I am slowly coming out of the baby fog (of course, I don't think that ever fully goes away) where I'm not totally consumed by the survival of 2 baby boys, Adam, and myself.  For me the first year of twins was mainly about survival.  I know that sounds terrible, but it's very true.  I was so worried about when the next feeding was, did they eat enough/too much, how many poops have they had, have they slept enough/not enough, what should they be doing developmentally, are they behind...you get the idea.  These are things that are constantly going through my mind as a mom-crazy, isn't it?  As you can tell, my mind is constantly racing.  I am definitely a Type A person which can be a bad thing sometimes.  

This year I really want to focus on being more in the moment and enjoy every second.  I am bad about focusing on the tasks I have to do and completing them.  I need to slow down and enjoy these precious moments with my boys.  I need to remind myself that the damn laundry can wait, the kitchen doesn't have to be spotless, toys scattered all over the house won't kill me, and putting down the iPad and phone doesn't mean the world is going to end.  Right now being the best Mom I can be to my boys is top priority.  Of course being a good wife is top priority too.  To be honest I need work in both areas.  These first years of the boys' lives are precious, and they will be in Kindergarten before I know it.  I am fortunate enough to be able to stay at home with these little boogers, so I need not take it for granted.  I just need to remind myself to slow down and enjoy. Just to set the record straight, this is the most rewarding but hard ass job ever!  Some days I want to scream and run away, but that's where wine and hard liquor come in, haha.  I'm just waiting for the day Adam comes home to find me with 2 empty wine bottles rocking back and forth on the floor drooling on myself while Mickey Mouse Clubhouse plays in the background for the millionth time.  Ha, totally kidding!  Well...kinda.  

I am excited to celebrate my birthday with my family in Knoxville.  Adam and I get to go out tonight for date night, which I'm ecstatic about!!  My sister and my 3 month old niece (today) will be arriving tomorrow.  I'm so happy the boys get to meet their cousin, and I get to see my sis!  I know it will be a fabulous birthday weekend!
Here's to you 31!

I will leave y'all with a few pics of my fam.







Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Who Wears Short Shorts?

I will be the first to admit that I love short shorts.  Shorts are my summer staple especially now that I have to chase around 2 little boys.  For me, the shorter the better.  That's only because I am only 5'4''.  I'm not a fan of long shorts due to my height.  I tell myself I don't need anymore shorts, but what do I buy?  Yes, more shorts!  I justify it because I wear them just about every day in the summer.
Here are some great pairs that I have found. 

I will start with some personal purchases...


Obsessed with my new J.Crew shorts!  
I'm so excited about finding these in one of my favorite colors.


Love the color! 
As y'all can tell, I have a slight obsession with mint and turq. 
I had to include the model pics because they look so much better.
Plus, it shows different ways to wear them. 
These are a more casual short and can easily be thrown on
with a tank, cami, or tee with some cute flat sandals or flip flops.
Of course you could also do a wedge if you want a little more dressed up look.

Here are some other shorts that are on my "wish list".

I love this print!  I clearly love every short on this page, but you get the idea.  Isn't this a great print and color?  Perfect!  Wear a white top or for something different do a mint top for some extra color.  These are great because you can easily dress them up or down. 

Hello flowers!  Floral prints are huge this season. 
 Floral shorts are a great way to jump on this trend
without having to scream floral with your outfit.

I have to admit that I love the high-waist trend! 
The trick to these is to make sure you pick a high waist that is flattering for your body type.  I have the image in my mind of poor Jessica Simpson wearing her so-called "Mom Jeans".  That is an example of how NOT to wear a high waist.  Having said that, I'm obsessed with these shorts!  I think I need to add them to my collection.  
I mean, I don't have a red pair. ;)

 
Y'all know I love Judith March's dresses.  Her shorts are no different. 
Aren't the colors great?
  I would dress these up with some fabulous heels or wedges,
add a big chunky necklace and/or some bright bracelets.  So hot!


How summery are these?  Easy breezy is what pops into mind.
I don't know which color I like better. 
 I am in love with the stripes. 
These are fabulous not only because of the great color and print, but they are $17.99?!
Are you kidding?  Thank you JCP!
Go buy now! 
JCP Twill Shorts

A great pair of denim shorts is a staple. 
I have been a fan of BlankNYC for years now.
They offer designer quality denim at a price point of around $88.
I have several pairs of Blank jeans and love every pair!
BlankNYC Denim Shorts (on sale!)

Anthropologie has finally opened up in downtown Greenville.  Of course I am ecstatic! Greenville continues to grow.  Now if we could get a Lululemon store (we already have a showroom) and Nordstrom, I would be set.  I found these online, but needless to say, I will be taking a trip downtown to try them on.  You can't go wrong with black and white.  I love a good ikat print too.  Notice the waistline on these.
Anthropologie Ikat Shorts


How cute are these?  Don't these look like the most comfortable shorts ever?  I like that they have a drawstring and pockets.  They are right on trend with a beautiful floral print.  You really could pair these with any color top. So versatile!
Zara Flowing Printed Shorts
By the way, Zara offers free shipping and returns!

Happy shorts shopping! :)

Friday, May 17, 2013

J.Crew Factory Sale...Happy Friday!

What better way to start off the weekend than with a little online shopping?  The boys are down for naps and I honestly should be working, but what am I doing instead?  Yup, shopping!!  I am a sucker for a sale, and I just couldn't resist taking advantage of J.Crew Factory's 30% off everything sale!


Here is what I found:

 
I've been looking for a casual dress/cover-up for the beach, and this is perfect.
I can wear it over my swimsuit and as a casual dress with some cute sandals and jewelry.

 
I am the shorts queen.  I have so many pairs 
and find myself wearing them almost everyday in the summer.  
That's how I justify purchasing another pair by the way.
  I do need to update my white shorts since my current pair are starting to get dingy (the downfall of white).  I might as well purchase them on a great sale, right?
These ended up being $24.15.  #WIN

 
I am loving the gold chain trend.  
I recently purchased this bracelet at J.Crew Factory's last 30% off sale.  
I have to say it is by far my favorite piece of jewelry right now.  
The hubs loves it too even though he calls me "Mr. T" when I wear it.  
When I saw this bracelet on sale, I had to have it to add to my collection.  
I will wear them both with my gold watch for some major chain action on my arm.  
Wait til Adam sees this one, ha ha! 


 
I am not wearing many dangling or hoop earrings these days, 
which is crazy because that used to be the only jewelry I wore.  
Anyway, now it's studs for me all the way.  
I couldn't resist these little gold gems especially at the price point.  
These will give me some variety since all I wear now are my CZ 
(nope, no diamonds....yet) studs. 

If y'all want to check out the sale too, here is the link.
Don't forget to enter the 30% off sale code at checkout: SALE30

Ok, now I have to get to work, so I can pay for all this!

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Detox, Cleanse, or Clean Eating?

I've been hearing a lot about cleanses and detoxes lately.  So, what exactly is a detox or a cleanse and should I be doing this?  Due to the antics of my 17 month old twin boys, I feel exhausted most of the time.  I am starting to feel that my skin looks sallow, old, and tired.  I want more energy to keep up with my 2 little monkeys, want my skin to be glowing, and just want to feel better all around.  

So...is a cleanse or detox for me?  There are so many different options available.  I have researched several and have come up with my own way of cleansing or detoxing.  I have decided that for my lifestyle a clean eating plan is the best way to go.  I am choosing not to drink only juice or to not eat at all because it wrecks your metabolism which leads to weight gain in the end.  Also, I want to avoid paying the exorbitant prices for these "so called" cleanses or detoxes.  I also need a certain amount of calories and food just to be able to keep up with my boys.  So having said that, here is what I have found works best for me.  

Let me just say (and you may not agree with me and that's ok) all you need to "detox", "cleanse", or lose a few lbs can be found naturally (at the grocery store, produce stands, farmers market or from your own garden).  I don't buy into all these gimmick programs.  Plus, do you really know how safe these shakes, juices, and pills are?  Starvation or leaving key nutrients out of your diet could cause other problems.  Your body requires certain carbs, fats, protein, sugars, and vitamins.  God provided us with all we need by giving us fruits, veggies, grains, and meats.  It's what you do with these that makes the difference!  Here are some ways I've found to be healthier. I try to incorporate most of these, if not all, into my diet daily.  Of course sticking to it is the hard part.  I will be the first to admit that I know how to eat clean, but it is hard to stay on track all the time with 2 little ones.  When I get run down, it's easy to grab fast food or foods that aren't as healthy.  Plus it takes time to shop and prepare. Sometimes those kiddos throw you for a loop and you have to grab whatever is there and easy just to survive.  When I do stick to my clean eating diet, I feel so much better and feel like I look better too. 

Here are a few things I eat and drink that help keep me eating clean and feeling good.

 Water
No matter what, I start my day by filling up my Tervis Tumbler with water and  freshly squeezed lemon.  I LOVE water!  Do I even need to mention how good water is for you?  I am never without my Tervis Tumbler of lemon water.  I can't keep count of how many times I refill it during the day.  I seriously can't go more than a few minutes without having a sip.  I am lost without it!  


Lemons
Lemon is my favorite fruit to add to my water.  Of course you can infuse water with any kind of fruit you want, but I love the taste of lemon and it has a cleansing effect on the body.  It also helps give your metabolism a little boost and clears the skin.

 
Cayenne Pepper
If I want to add an extra kick to my water, add a little more cleansing power, and give my metabolism a boost, I add a dash of cayenne pepper.  I know it sounds crazy, but I love my "spicy lemon water".  Try it!

BREAKFAST
 Organic brown eggs
I honestly don't know if it makes a difference whether or not you buy organic, brown, or white eggs, but I love Whole Foods brown eggs.  I am not much of a breakfast eater, but it's so important to get a good protein filled breakfast.  I usually use 3 eggs (3 whites and half a yolk).  I either scramble them with a splash of milk or make a spinach and low fat ham omelet.

Grapefruit
Next on my breakfast menu is grapefruit.  I used to not like grapefruit but can't live without them now.  They are so good for you!  Belly fat burning properties, great vitamin C source, and the list goes on and on.  I try to have one every morning if possible.  Add a little sweetener and you're good to go.  
Agave nectar is amazing on them! 

Agave Nectar
My new sweetener of choice.  I have been trying to cut back on my Equal and Splenda intake.  I  have been known to use 3-4 Splenda packets in my tea, so not good.  I have recently discovered agave nectar which is so yummy and not as bad for you as pure sugar and all that chemical crap.  It is very sweet, so you don't need much which saves calories.  Side note: It is amazing in a margarita, which is a post for another time.

Oatmeal
I have always been a fan of oatmeal.  This is my go to breakfast of choice.  If I don't have time to scramble some eggs, I quickly heat up some oatmeal.  My favorite way to eat it is to add a little sweetener, cinnamon and milk.  A great way to get a serving of fruit is to add some blueberries which is a great source of antioxidants.  I don't get too creative with my oatmeal, but there are so many healthy add-ins you can use.



Strawberries and Blueberries
Hello antioxidants!  I am personally not a huge fan of blueberries, but I know they are so good for you.  Since it is strawberry season, my favorite time of year, I have been adding some blueberries in with my strawberries and they taste great!  Another option is to throw them into a salad or smoothie.  Strawberries are my favorite fruit, and I wait all year for the fresh picked local berries.  They make a great healthy dessert.  What a great alternative to all the sugary crap I love so much.


 
Prunes
Oh prunes.  What would I do without you?  I have been eating these for years.  My boys now love them too.  We start our day with a couple of prunes. Such a great way to get potassium, fiber, and keep things on track.  Warning: don't eat the whole bag! ;)

~PICK ME-UPS~

 Vitamin B-12
I need energy to get through my day...A LOT of energy!  Besides my morning cup of joe and the amount of caffeine in the occasional cup of oolong tea I drink, I don't get a whole lot of caffeine in my diet.  B-12 gives me the extra kick of energy I need to get through my day.  

  Zesty Lemongrass Oolong Tea
I have currently discovered the wonderful world of tea.  I've always loved iced tea and the occasional cup of hot tea, but I had no idea how many different types and varieties of tea there are.  The benefits of certain types of tea are endless. One of my current favorites is oolong.  Oolong specifically helps burn fat, increases metabolism, aids in lowering cholesterol, and supposedly suppresses appetite.  My seasonal favorite flavor is zesty lemongrass.  There is a small amount of caffeine, so I like to drink this early afternoon for a little pick me up.

 Green Tea
My go to tea is always green.  Most types don't have a lot of caffeine, if any, so I can drink it anytime of day.  Green tea is so good for you because it's high in antioxidants, has cancer fighting properties, improves mental alertness, helps remove toxins, and aids in regulating blood sugars.  I love Tazo's Zen because it has a minty flavor and isn't too pungent.  So refreshing!


 
Probiotic Drinks
A new trend that has emerged is Kombucha or probiotic drinks.  I have to admit, I have jumped on board.  They have live probiotics in them, which are the beneficial bacteria that live in the gut. You need to have a good supply of these bacteria in the digestive tract in order to maintain intestinal health.  Probiotics also support immune and digestive health.  It helps cleanse in other words.  I drink one every so often just to keep things running smoothly.   


~SNACKS~
 
Kashi Bars
I could not live without these!  I eat one just about every day.  The dark mocha almond is my favorite flavor.  These are the perfect snack with 140 calories, 3.5 fat grams, 6 protein grams, and only 6 grams of sugar. 

 
Hummus
Another great snack is hummus.  It contains plenty of Omega 3 fatty acids, has iron, vitamin B6, manganese, copper, folic acid, and amino acids.  Of course it goes great with pita chips or bread but just make sure you don't eat a pound of pita with it (note to self).  
Other healthy options are to add hummus to veggies like carrots and celery. 


 Edamame
This really is the perfect snack.  It's so easy to make if you happen to be at home and have a few minutes to boil it.  Another great snack option for the kiddos.  My boys love it!  For 1/2 cup of shelled edamame, there are 120 calories , 9 grams of fiber (what?!!), 2.5 grams of fat, and11 grams of protein (insane!).  Add a dash of salt, soy, or for a different twist, a dusting of Parmesan cheese and you have a wonderfully healthy snack option.

~SUPER FOODS~
Avocados
This is a great way to get good fat into your diet.  It is mostly monounsaturated fat which is a healthy fat.  Avocados are considered one of the healthiest foods on the planet because of all the essential nutrients, including vitamin A, B, C, E, & K, copper, iron, phosphorus, magnesium, and potassium. Avocados also contain fiber, protein, and several beneficial phytochemicals which may protect against various disease and illness.  I like to slice them and add to a salad or turkey sandwich.  Of course my fave way to eat avocado is in guacamole!  Yum! 

 
Spinach
Another super food is spinach.  We all know Popeye told us to eat our spinach, but there was definitely a reason for that.  A single cup full of spinach will give you adequate amounts of vitamin A and vitamin K. It will also give you lots of folate and manganese in addition to magnesium.  Spinach also has a lot of antioxidants.  So load up!  I use fresh spinach to make salads, saute with some vinegar, or throw some in the juicer with some banana or pineapple for a green super juice.

~MEALS~

 Romaine Lettuce
I can't have a salad without romaine.  This is my go to lettuce.  My favorite is to mix spinach and romaine for my salad greens.  Add some protein, veggies, and a light vinaigrette or just lemon juice and you have a healthy salad ready to go. 


Fresh Fish
Sushi is my favorite way of getting my Omega-3s.  Of course you have to be careful to avoid the fried or tempura rolls.  There's also nothing like a good piece of fresh, grilled fish.  Pair that with some asparagus and add a fresh salad if you want.  One of the healthiest meals you can eat.


And the best part...
Let's be honest though. Everyone needs a cheat meal or even a whole day. Indulging in some of your favorite foods will help keep you on track, and you have something to look forward to every week. A meal or even a whole day won't wreck your progress. In fact it may even help shock your system and metabolism.


And finally...
Never underestimate the cleansing power of a good sweat!!